Last updated July 2026
Xenia works because everyone in the club came in the way you did, and everyone treats each other’s homes and time with care. These are the rules that keep it that way.
Every member verifies their identity before they join. Everyone here also set up a real profile, opened a seat of their own, and made the promise above. A person decides; no algorithm scores anyone.
Even so, use your own judgment, the same as any time you meet someone new. Tell us if something feels wrong and a person will read it.
Bringing anyone along earns exactly one spot per guest you welcome, a quiet morning walk counts the same as a whole day out. Spots can’t be bought, only earned by making room for someone. How grand it is has never been the point.
An ask that was never confirmed isn’t a cancellation: withdraw it, or let it be declined, and nothing was ever spent. Asking holds no spot. For a CONFIRMED spot: plans change, if you can’t make it, cancel as early as you can so the host can plan. Cancel more than 24 hours ahead and it unwinds cleanly: your spot comes back to you and the host’s comes back to them. Inside 24 hours the spot stays spent, the host has already planned and prepared around you. Repeated late cancellations or no-shows put your membership at risk. If a host cancels on you, or someone doesn’t show, flag it and we’ll make it right (your spent spot is returned).
Harassment, discrimination, threats, or any behavior that makes someone feel unsafe ends a membership. Report it and we act.
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